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Best cuts for your Yom HaAtzmaut BBQ

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Celebrate Israel’s Independence Day with a family BBQ and the best beef cuts, fish and vegetarian options.

You may be stuck on sirloin or rib‑eye, but it’s time to branch out and explore other beef cuts that are just as delicious. So which cuts should you consider for your Israeli BBQ this Independence Day?

When it comes to steak, Israeli chefs almost always recommend entrecote, sirloin, and fillet. These three cuts are packed with flavor—but they’re also among the most expensive.

That’s why it’s worth discovering the lesser‑known cuts that grill beautifully and offer great value. Much of the beef sold in Israel is imported from Poland and Argentina, but locally raised Israeli beef is known for its rich flavor and high quality. You won’t find it in supermarkets, though—you’ll need to look for it at a privately owned butcher or a specialty supplier who works directly with local farms.

Beef

  1. Entrecote – (Same name in Hebrew) This cut is similar to a ribeye and is well-marbled, making it flavorful and tender when cooked. The price point is upwards of 130 NIS/kg. 
  2. Ribeye – (Steak Ayin) This cut is from the cow’s rib section and is well-marbled, making it juicy and flavorful when cooked. It can be grilled or smoked for barbecue. A pre-pack of frozen ribeye will cost around 80 NIS for frozen and 120 NIS/kg for fresh. Frozen meats are cheaper than fresh meats but are not comparable in quality. 
  3. Fillet steak – (Fileh Bakar) comes from the cow’s loin. It is prized for its tenderness, juiciness, and mild flavor. The fillet is located beneath the ribs, and because it is not a weight-bearing muscle, it is very tender. Fillet steak may be served with a rich sauce, herbs, or mushrooms. Because it is a premium cut of beef, fillet steak can be expensive, but it is a popular choice for special occasions or as a treat, and Yom HaAtzmaut is the perfect occasion. The queen of beef, you can expect to pay upwards of 180 NIS/kg 
  4. Brisket – (Same in Hebrew) This cut is from the cow’s lower chest and requires hours of slow cooking to become tender. It is popular at barbecues and can be served sliced or shredded. Price point – 80 NIS/kg+
  5. Short ribs – (Assado) These are cut from the cow’s rib section and have meat on the bone. They are best cooked low and slow to become tender and flavorful. Expect to pay upwards of 70 NIS/kg depending on the quality.  
  6. Flank steak – (Flank or Flanken) From the underbelly, the flank muscle is well-developed with plenty of connective tissue. It is not very juicy but has a strong flavor. Slice it thinly for serving. 
  7. The sheitel comes from the back of the cow. Sheitel has a full flavor and is low in fat. Butchers recommend sheitel that has been aged for at least 14 days. It is also recommended to slice the sheitel into finger-thick steaks. Sheitel is best-eaten medium-rare, brown on the outside and red on the inside. Price Point – 100/kg 
  8. Brazilian Cut – (Spitz Chach) is growing in popularity in Israel. The Spitz Chach is characterized by a thick cap of fat. It is not as popular as sirloin, entrecote, or fillet, but demand is increasing, and its price point is similar to the premium cuts – around 100 NIS/kg 
  9. Denver Steak- (same in Hebrew) is an increasingly popular cut of meat. Denver steaks are relatively tender, with a nice beefy flavor and a good amount of marbling. Denver steaks are great for cooking on the grill. Expect to pay around 120 NIS/kg 
  10. Delmonico Steak (same in Hebrew) is a large, thick steak—up to two inches. Delmonico is a high-quality cut of beef with plenty of marbling and good flavor. Supermarket butchery price is around 100 NIS/kg. 
  11. Top Sirloin – (Avazit), from the back of the thigh is mainly used for preparing minced meat dishes and stews. You should ask the butcher to cut a very thick steak, 4 fingers thick (7 cm) and weighing about 1.4 kg). Once cooked, the steak should rest for 15 minutes. Slice thinly, serve seasoned with olive oil, salt, pepper and lemon zest.

Always cook beef cuts to a safe temperature of at least 145°F (63°C) for medium-rare and above for food safety. 

Lamb or Mutton

The best kebabs are made with lamb or mutton, but the lamb price in Israel is outrageously high. There is a way to get around it and take advantage of the great flavor. Fresh lamb price 120 – 180 NIS/kg

For around 30 NIS, you can purchase a small block of lamb fat (Shuman Keves – שומן כבש). Add a small quantity of minced, lamb fat to your raw beef mince and other ingredients, and you’ll get a flavorsome result.

Chicken

Butterflied or spatchcocked chicken, marinated in a sauce of your choice, hot off the grill served with grilled lemons and roasted garlic, is an inviting Yom HaAtzmaut meal. Reminiscent of a medieval feast, there is something satisfying in tearing the freshly grilled chicken off the bone—grilling time 45-60 minutes. Chicken thighs (skin on) need 10-15 minutes on the grill.

Price Point – 24/kg (whole chicken)

Price Point – 28/kg (thighs)

Fish

Basted with fresh lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, salmon, and whole fish like Denise, Amnon, and Bass are delicious on the barbecue.

Price Point – 120 NIS/kg (Fresh Salmon)

Price Point – 60 NIS/kg (Denise)

Price Point – 50 NIS/kg (Amnon)

Price Point – 125 NIS/kg (Bass)

Look for special offers wherever you can. Israelis consume thousands of tons of meat, poultry, and fish over the Yom HaAtzmaut weekend, buy in advance or else expect shortages.

Smoked Foods

Smoked meats are popular, and while not barbecued, meats prepared in a smoker truly hit the sweet spot. Less-expensive, tougher cuts are better suited to the low and slow smoking process. Fat and connective tissues break down into tender morsels. Thinner cuts are not well-suited to being smoked and will be tough and dry. A smoked chicken, served cold with a slaw and potato salad, is a delightful summer meal. You can smoke fish too – thicker, fattier fish like salmon and tuna, smoke well.

Vegetarian

Try our vegetarian black-bean burger. Price Point – 20/2 large patties.

Chag Atzmaut Sameach!

Commemorating the Holocaust – Zikaron BaSalon

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Zikaron BaSalon – Memories from the Living Room

Holocaust Memorial Day in Israel – Yom HaShoa – is commemorated in many ways. One of the more recent initiatives is Zikaron BaSalon – Memories from the Living Room.

A unique and growing tradition, and in the comfort and security of their own homes, Holocaust survivors tell their stories and share their memories with members of the public. As long as we have Holocaust survivors who want to share their experiences, we need to hear them.

You can host a speaker in your own home or attend one of the many meet-ups. For more information and to participate in, join or host a Zikaron BaSalon event, click here.

Starting a business in Israel

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The #1 Best Legal Move For New Business Success in Israel



by Aviram A. Goldstein from Hait Family Law

More than ever before, women entrepreneurs in Israel are blazing a trail and succeeding in business

A note from Jay Hait – Are you making Aliyah? Wish you knew the #1 best legal move for new business success in Israel? Many of us who’ve moved to Israel have had to reinvent ourselves in order to make a living. I personally only had to make a small adjustment. I practiced securities law in New York and switched to family law when I got to Israel. But I know attorneys who’ve become technical writers; nurses who have gone into non-healthcare areas; teachers who are now life coaches. I’ve even met a molecular biologist who became a restaurateur!  For many immigrants, whether by choice or necessity, moving to Israel has given them the opportunity to become entrepreneurs. 

I meet these trailblazers in my family law practice as they go through their life-cycles; getting married and/or divorced; making their wills; planning for their senior years and retirement; making healthcare decisions for their futures. These are clients who have shared their need for  legal advice associated with their businesses. Up until recently we’ve referred them to commercial attorneys outside of our firm. But many have expressed the desire to stay on with us. So, we’ve expanded our legal services to include a commercial law division headed by Aviram A. Goldstein. Aviram is focused on empowering entrepreneurs. Here, he shares his take on the #1 best legal move for new business success in israel.

The Start Up Nation

Israel is known as The Start Up Nation. We are a country of entrepreneurs and we celebrate innovation and creativity. So, you are in excellent company when you make Aliyah and decide to open your own business. Did you know that over the last three years the intention of the adult, non-entrepreneurial population in Israel to start a new business, increased to 31.9%? This is partly due to the desire to be independent and partly because of very supportive government initiatives. There is an entire department called The Israel Innovation Authority Division here in Israel. In 2020 it approved 615 requests by new tech companies for support.

And people from all areas of our population are getting in on the growth. Women, the orthodox community, the Arab sector. 35,000 new businesses opened in 2021! Our culture glorifies the status of the entrepreneur. Maybe it’s because even though the rewards are great, it’s not an easy undertaking and those who are successful are revered. 

Setting Up a Business

Congratulations! You’ve come up with a great idea for a business. Created a business plan. Scouted out locations (even if that means setting up your home office.) Lined up funding. If you’ll be taking on a partner, you’ve outlined your partnership agreement. It’s exciting and daunting at the same time. And now you have a very important decision to make. Knowing the best legal move for business success will help you.

Sole Ownership vs Registered Company 

There are differences in both accounting and legal liability when choosing the way you’ll open your new business. First, let’s take a look at the accounting differences between the two and then we’ll examine the legal implications.

Sole ownership (עוסק מורשה, in Hebrew) is the simplest and most common structure when starting a new business. This means you own a company privately and that you can run it from home. You are able to have an office as well as employees, and you can make a modest profit. 

There are two ways to set up your company if you go this route. Neither require any costs or complicated balance sheets that need to be managed by a chartered accountant. (You might want to consider hiring an accountant anyway). 

The first is called an Osek Patur – עוסק פטור – (exempt from taxes dealer). This is for companies with a maximum annual turnover of 99,000 NIS (re-evaluated annually). You’re not required to make any VAT (value added tax) declarations nor can you recover VAT on expenses or investments.

The second way to set up your company under sole ownership is called an Osek Murshe -עוסק מורשה- (authorized dealer). Here you are required to pay taxes. This is for companies with a turnover of over 100,000 NIS yearly. In this case you make VAT returns every one or two months and you are able to get back the VAT on purchases and collect it on revenue. 

While you can take care of all the accounting yourself with a sole ownership company – עוסק מורשה – (we do however recommend you do) and there is very little if any tax to pay, it also means you have unlimited personal responsibility for all the activities of your company. In contrast, if you open a registered company, a Chevrat Baam –  – חברת בעם – the accounting is far more complicated and there are more taxes to pay as well. But you have almost no risk if you are a separate independent shareholder in your company.

Legal Differences Between Sole Ownership & Registered Company 

It’s my experience that few people appreciate the significant legal advantages of setting up a Chevrat Baam – חברת בעם (registered company). When the owner (or shareholder) is a separate, independent legal entity from the business, he or she is protected against all claims against the business. In situations where finances get complicated or even if the business collapses, the owner is protected.

As soon as a company is registered it receives an identity number (called CO – the abbreviation symbolizes a “private company”). Once the company opens its own bank account, it may enter into any agreement or legal obligation. Since the company is a body without “arms and legs” as it were, all its actions are performed by an authorized person (usually the owner) on behalf of the company. And it’s as if the actions were taken by the company itself.

I’m going to use a fictitious case with exaggerated circumstances to illustrate all the legal advantages of setting up a registered company or Chevrat Baam. So, let’s follow Motti on his hypothetical business journey to see how he utilizes what I believe is the #1 best legal move for success in a new business. 

One Man’s Hypothetical Business Journey

Motti was just an ordinary guy who wanted to build modern kitchens. So, he decided to open a carpentry shop to produce them. First, he consulted with an accountant who suggested that he open his company as a sole proprietorship (עוסק מורשה). The accountant told Motti that he should take advantage of not paying taxes and keeping his accounting to a minimum the first year, since he would not likely turn a very big profit. And he could always rethink it after a year if he made more than 99,000 NIS. 

After seeking advice from a business lawyer the very next day, Moti did the opposite and opened his company as a Chevrat Baam – חברת בעם (registered company). And “Motti Modern Kitchens Ltd” was born. 

At the beginning the company took out loans to finance the start of operations. Motti, by virtue of being the CEO, signed the loan agreement, on behalf of the company. (He was the arms and legs as mentioned before.)

Motti liked to do everything in a big way, so he (the company) rented a building on a half-acre with hopes that it would serve as a modern carpentry shop. He also purchased expensive, modern, sophisticated production equipment. Since he wanted to create a high-tech atmosphere, he recruited 12 employees, committing to high salaries and a leased car for each one. He made sure that the company paid him a respectable salary as well. After all, he was the CEO.

Over-Extended 

Unfortunately, the company’s coffers emptied pretty quickly. That, however, did not stop Motti from ordering huge quantities of goods. The payment terms in the industry were “current +90” meaning, Motti would have to pay for the goods he now received, in three month’s time. Motti hoped that in the meantime, the company would have enough goods to produce modern kitchens and they would sell quickly.

Ultimately, things didn’t work out as Motti had planned. The company had to pay the current expenses; rent; property taxes; salaries to employees, etc. but it had no funds. Since Motti’s personal accounts (as opposed to the company’s account) had quite a bit of money accumulated over the years, he decided to lend money to the company himself. (This is called an “owner loan”).

Motti contacted his lawyer again to help him set up a loan agreement between himself and the company. On the one hand, Motti signed as a lender, and on the other hand, he signed on behalf of the borrower – the company of which he is the CEO.

Shortly afterwards, the company simply collapsed. Lawsuits began to arrive from every direction. The workers had not received their wages. The car leasing companies did not receive their money. Customers who didn’t get their kitchens and suppliers who didn’t get paid both tried to sue. In a short time, liens were taken on the bank accounts of the company (in which there was no money to seize) and against the company’s property. (In fact, the company had no property).

Company In Trouble

The employees filed a liquidation claim against the company (what was formerly, popularly called “bankruptcy”), and a receiver was appointed to liquidate the company’s assets. All of the company’s debtors had to file a debt claim, with the goal being that the receiver would sell the company’s assets, and pay each debtor the proportionate share from any remaining funds (a complex and cumbersome procedure).

Surprisingly, among the creditors was also Motti!

Motti demanded from “Motti Modern Kitchens Ltd” the full amount of the loan he gave to the company because it was made as a secured loan and had priority against the assets it was secured against. The rest of the debt holders got a relative share of what remained from the liquidation of the assets of the company (i.e. from nothing).

A really outrageous situation was created. Motti Kitchens Ltd. was disbanded, the suppliers did not receive the value for their money, the workers did not get their full rights, and Motti? Well, Motti bought a Mercedes.

Minimizing Your Own Risks

Starting a business in Israel involves considerable risks. In practice even the owners of a company have risks – as when a personal guarantee is required. But as the story illustrates, in the end, if a company is a separate legal entity from its owner, the owner minimizes his risks. 

If Motti had set up the carpentry shop as a sole proprietorship – עוסק מורשה – the business number would have been his ID number. The agreements he signed with the suppliers and with the employees would have been with Motti personally and directly. The lawsuits would have been filed against Motti. The liens would have been made on his savings, on his vehicles, on his private home. All his property would have been taken from him.

The #1 Best Legal Move For New Business Success

There are differences in the manner of taxation between a limited registered company, a Chevrat Baam  – חברת בעם – and a sole ownership, Osek Murshe -עוסק מורשה.  So, from an accounting point of view, it will usually be worthwhile to run the business as a registered company only after it has achieved a certain amount of revenue and profits.

But legally? Of course, each case should be determined independently. For risk-takers the #1 best legal move for new business success will usually be to start a business as a registered company in order not to leave themselves vulnerable.

20 Most Popular Aliyah Destinations

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The Nefesh B’Nefesh List of the 20 Most Popular Aliyah Locations

Where are new olim settling after they have made Aliyah once they’ve arrived in Israel?

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There are large communities of English speakers in Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, Raanana, and Beit Shemesh while locations like Tzfat and Pardes Chana – Karkur, are growing in popularity.

Top locations for Aliyah, according to Nefesh B’Nefesh’s in-house Aliyah figures are – in order of popularity:

  1. Jerusalem
  2. Beit Shemesh
  3. Tel Aviv – Jaffa
  4. Raanana
  5. Modiin – Maccabim – Reut
  6. Efrat
  7. Netanya
  8. Herzlia
  9. Haifa
  10. Zichron Yaakov
  11. Rechovot
  12. Ramat Gan
  13. Tzfat
  14. Rishon LeZion
  15. Ashdod
  16. Givat Zeev
  17. Beer Sheva
  18. Ashkelon
  19. Pardes Chana – Karkur
  20. Givat Shmuel

Let us know where you live and what you like about your community?

The Funeral of Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky, the leader of Israel’s Lithuanian ultra-Orthodox community in Bnei Brak

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Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky

Kanievsky was born in 1928 in Pinsk, Belarus. His father was the prominent Torah sage Rabbi Ya’akov Yisrael Kanievsky, known as the Steipler rabbi. His mother, Pesha Miriam, was the sister of the Hazon Ish, the revered Rabbi Abraham Yishayahu Karelitz. He married Batsheva Esther, daughter of esteemed Rabbi Yosef Shalom Eliashiv, in 1951.


Image credit: Wikimedia Commons – U.S. Ambassador to Israel Tom Nides made his first official visit to Bnei Brak on December 16, 2021. During his visit, the ambassador met with Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky and Rothers (Official visit of U.S. Ambassador Nides in Bnei Brak, December 16 2021)

Some 1,000,000 mourners are expected to show their respects today at the funeral of Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky. Ahead of the funeral on Sunday at 11 a.m major traffic arteries in central Israel will be closed to regular traffic starting at 6 a.m as follows:

  • Route 4 in both directions between Mishmar Hashiv’ah and Morasha exits (traffic will be redirected to Route 1) and from Ganot in the north (traffic will be redirected to Routes 1 and 44).
  • Route 5 east from Morasha
  • Bnei Brak will be closed to regular traffic, including Hazon Ish Street and all roads leading to it; Jabotinsky Street from Ben-Gurion intersection to Rabin Road, as well as roads leading to Jabotinsky; Aluf Sade interchange through Hashalom Road; Em Hamoshavot Road to the Ayalon Mall in both directions
  • Route 471 bound for Route 4
  • Route 1 from Ganot Junction to Route 4 (traffic will be redirected to Route 1 west)
  • Route 44 will be blocked from Hashiva interchange through Route 4 northbound (traffic will be redirected to Route 1 east or west).
  • The entrance ramp from Route 461 to Route 4 northbound will be blocked; access roads from Kiryat Ono and Givat Shmuel to Route 471 will be blocked; Sha’ariya junction toward Route 471 will be blocked.

Traffic is expected to only return to normal around 8 p.m.

Light an Extra Shabbat Candle for the Displaced Jews in the Ukraine

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Join us this coming Shabbat and light an extra candle for the displaced Jews in the Ukraine who are unable to perform this simple mitzvah. Please hold them in your thoughts as you bless your candles.

Kiev Candle Lighting Times

March 25 – Shabbat Starting: 6.01pm

March 26 – Shabbat Ending: 7.09pm

This Week’s Torah Reading

This week’s Portion of the Law is Parshat Hashavua SHEMINI

The Jews of the Ukraine

With deep roots, Ukraine is home to one of the world’s largest Jewish communities and it is the birthplace of the Hasidic movement.

Ukraine has also been the site of extreme antisemitism and in fact, the the most horrific violence ever committed against the Jewish people was committed there, during the Holocaust.

Ukraine’s Jewish Population

The European Jewish Congress estimates that there are between 360,000 – 400,000 Jews living in the Ukraine. Kiev, Odessa and Karkhiv are home to the biggest communities. The next census is scheduled for 2023.

Uman is a small city but is well known for the grave of 18th-century Hasidic Rabbi Nahman of Breslov. Every year around Rosh Hashanah Hasidic Jews make an annual pilgrimage to Rabbi Nahman’s grave. A few hundred Jews live in Uman permanently.

A Divorce Attorney’s Advice on Marriage

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Why on earth would anyone listen to a divorce attorney’s advice on marriage? After all, isn’t it the lawyer’s job to help end a marriage?

I’ve had many years experience assisting people reach divorce agreements and litigating clients’ cases in the courts. And because of this I’ve been privy to quite a few details illustrating what goes wrong in these relationships. I’ve observed that the common thread in virtually every situation is that the couple has lost touch with each other.

Most of us take better care of our car than our marriages. (I was certainly guilty of that myself. It was one of the major reasons my first marriage broke up almost 20 years ago.) We know regular maintenance keeps our vehicle running smoothly. If it’s all tuned up with air in the tires and gas in the tank, we can depend on it to get us where we want to go. But when it comes to the most important relationship in our lives, we tend to think it will take care of itself with minimal effort and little attention. But, our marriages deserve at least as much attention as our vehicles if we expect them to help carry us throughout a lifetime.

Unfortunately, so many couples in my family law practice have lived the majority of their lives together, before deciding to get divorced. These are people in their mid to late 50s or early 60s with retirement just around the corner. How do long-married people wind up like this? Sadly, these marriages are like neglected cars. They’ve got broken fan belts, flat tires, rusted underbellies and dead batteries.


The Lucky Ones

My wife and I were in Dahab for a long weekend recently and ran into a young couple we know quite well. Chaya* and Sruli* were there, checking out a local hotel to see if it was suitable for their Passover holiday plans.

Chaya, who is 27, grew up as a Belz Chassid. Her husband was raised in the Peleg, Yerushalmi Chassidic sect. They had each decided to go against the directives of the Rabbis of their communities and get a secular education and jobs in the ‘outside’ world. Both were disowned by their families once they made these choices even though they remained observant. As a matter of fact, their outward appearance when they join us for Shabbat, often elicits questions from our synagogue friends. Sruli has continued his family’s custom of wearing his bekishe ( long black coat) on the Sabbath and our friends want to know how this kid (who is clearly not our son) is connected to us.

Since we met them 4 years ago, we’ve become like an aunt and uncle. We are a big part of their connection to the “real world,” and have advised them on a number of occasions. And sometimes we have acted as trusted counselors and friends with regards to marital issues and issues between them and their nuclear families.

Chaya told us that she and her husband felt like the lucky ones. “Most of the people we know, who have left our communities” she said, “have gotten divorced. And for those who have left a religious life, the number goes up to about ninety percent.”

I don’t know if Chaya’s exact numbers are correct. But I’ve seen them reflected in my own practice.

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Even a Vintage Car Can Be Restored

One gentleman actually took this divorce attorney’s advice on marriage even though he came to me for a divorce.

Imagine my surprise when an 82-year-old man contacted me, wanting a divorce from his wife of more than 50 years. He was an American immigrant and as we began our chat, he asked if I was Ashkenazi. When I told him I was, he said, “Listen, I don’t want to sound racist, but you have to understand how different Sefardic Jews, like my wife, are.”

I explained that I understand all too well the challenges for two people from completely different cultures building a life together. My wife and partner of 17 years is Moroccan. “But, didn’t you realize those differences 35 or 40 years ago?” I asked him. “What has happened that you feel like you want to leave her now?”

I learned much more about his circumstances and realized this couple may not actually want a divorce. In the end, I got in touch with one of his sons, with the gentleman’s permission, of course. I told him to get his mother back home and to get his parents some counseling. As far as I know, he did just that because the elderly gentleman has not been back in touch with me.

A Divorce Attorney’s Advice on Marriage

I believe most of us don’t give enough attention to the differences in the ways we and our spouses grow through the years. That’s when marriage is like a car without regular maintenance. If attention isn’t given to all the moving parts, they can’t work in tandem to get you where you want to go.

I explained to Chaya that when a couple has kids, they spend the majority of their interactions around child related issues. They very often tend to ignore their own relationship. So, people who were two peas in a pod in the first ten years of their marriage may find that they have nothing in common anymore.

“What should we do to make sure that this doesn’t happen to us?” Chaya asked.

Obviously, I am not a marriage counselor. But, through my personal experience and my family law practice I have learned some valuable lessons. And there is one big change I made in my own marriage, this second-time round, that has had an enormous, positive affect on our lives.

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Date Night is Crucial

As I told Chaya and Sruli, the high price of going out and/or hiring a babysitter throughout a marriage is still a lot less than the price of a divorce – no matter how long you’ve been married. So even if you don’t have kids but especially if you do, designate a date night where the two of you actually leave the house and your regular routine behind. These date nights are an extremely valuable way to strengthen your relationship.

There are countless things you can do together – from a simple walk, to going out for dinner and seeing a movie. Discuss what each of you would like to do when you’re planning your date night. Share your ideas for a fun, relaxing time. Then PLAN IT and DO IT!

This precious time each week is just for the two of you. The goal is to decompress from the everyday pressures of child rearing and life in general. Take the opportunity to ask your partner how they’re doing and feeling and then listen and ask questions so you can really understand. Share your own thoughts and feelings. If you share a hobby, do that together. Talk about what you’re reading. It doesn’t really matter what you do. Just do it together. There is something very special about seeing someone you love enjoy themselves. And the calm you both feel after these relaxed hours will carry you through the coming days. Until the next date night.

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Marriage Maintenance Commitment

One absolutely can not overestimate the value of this time spent together. Our kids are adults now and we’re empty nesters, but we still love our date nights! And, in addition, for years we’ve been spending a half hour every evening just sitting together on our balcony in the fresh air. Sometimes we talk. Sometimes we just enjoy the quiet.

So take a divorce attorney’s advice on marriage. Treat your marriage like a car. Commit to those date nights! Consider it your weekly tune up. You’re checking the tire pressure; realigning the wheel suspension; filling it with fuel. When you experience the hum of the smoothly running engine you know it will get the two of you where you want to go.

3 Big Divorce Challenges Jewish Women Face

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What are the 3 big challenges Jewish women face when getting divorced?

By: Adv. Jay Hait

There are 3 big divorce challenges Jewish women face and they can be completely overwhelming. There are legal, emotional and practical hurdles that have to be overcome. When a marriage ends whether it was his idea or hers, it’s a very sad, stressful time. The moment you know divorce is in your future you’ve got a lot of decisions to make. And that’s a huge challenge when you’re just trying to process your emotions.

“I wanted to end my marriage years ago but couldn’t find a reason to justify leaving,” says Devorah*. “I finally got the courage to seek counseling and after spending almost a year understanding myself and the dynamic of our relationship. I knew leaving my husband was the best thing for me to do.” Devorah said she felt a tremendous sense of relief once she made the decision to tell him she wanted a divorce. “Then,” she says, “All I felt was panic.”

Let’s look at some of the hurdles most women have to deal with. And at the end of the article you’ll find a link to a list of some helpful resources.

A Word About Chained Women – Agunot

Divorce from a legal perspective is always arduous. But with a Jewish marriage, and in Israel in particular, it can be down right dreadful.

According to Jewish law the only way for a couple to get divorced is for the husband to give his wife the Get – the Jewish divorce document. The Rabbinic court is the sole authority in Israel that is able to issue that Get and thereby to legally end the marriage. So even if all of the other issues of your divorce are litigated (or much better – a comprehensive divorce agreement is affirmed) in the Family Court, you still will not be divorced until you and your spouse have gone through the Get ceremony in the Rabbinic court. 

A Jewish woman who wants a divorce from a Jewish man is always worried that he may not give it. Even if he wants to divorce her, he might withhold a Get. These husbands often hold out in order to extort money or assets from their wives in exchange for the document. And the Rabbinic courts are known to not only allow it but in many cases encourage such behavior. 

If a woman is unlucky enough to be married to someone who refuses to give her a Get she becomes an ‘Aguna‘ or “chained woman”. She is then unable to get remarried. If she enters a new relationship, she is stigmatized as an adulteress. If children are born from this relationship they are classified as illicit offspring or ‘mamzerim’. There are over 400 known cases of Get refusal per year in Israel with actual cases estimated to be far greater. While there are many advocate groups fighting to unchain these women it remains a huge problem.

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In my family law practice, while I see all 3 big divorce challenges Jewish women face, it’s my responsibility to handle only the legal side. This alone has the potential to cause considerable stress.

1) Will there be a problem with the Get?

2) How can one gather all the relevant documents and deal with all the papers that are to be filled out?

3) One must determine what their assets are and what they’re worth, which means hunting down details.

4) Hiring a divorce attorney is more often than not the first time a woman has come in contact with a lawyer.

5) And let’s not forget the complicated legal system in Israel with two courts to navigate. Just the mechanics alone can be quite overwhelming.

The best way to handle the legal challenges is to gather as much information as possible before you make any decisions. I’ve written a divorce guide especially for women which you can download for free. There are a number of other free books and reports available – including a guide for how to choose a lawyer – which all help demystify the divorce process in Israel. Visit Hait Family Law for the complete list.

The Emotional Challenges

For insights into the emotional side of divorce for a woman, I consulted an expert. Beverly Chimes, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and certified life coach who lives in Israel and has clients all over the world.

Beverly told me that when a client who is divorcing, first comes to her, they are in panic and crisis mode. Their emotions are like a pot of water on a high flame, vigorously boiling and splashing over.

“I listen with compassion and patience as they let off the steam that has been building up,” she explains. “They definitely need to process their emotions but when divorce is in the picture there are more immediate challenges that have to be dealt with as well.” Beverly helps them turn down the flame and get into the driver’s seat so they can begin addressing those immediate challenges.

Psychologist Abraham Maslow became famous for his “Hierarchy of Needs” back in 1943. It describes his “theory of motivation,” and has become a tool utilized by professionals in many healthcare areas. The idea is that people are not able to address their emotional needs unless their basic physical needs are taken care of. One has to have a roof over her head and food in her belly in order to deal with what’s in her heart.

The Practical Challenges

As Beverly puts it, “Some of my clients don’t realize that practicality is the first level of survival. Processing emotions is a luxury they have to put aside for the time being in order to cover their basic needs – like a place to live and food on the table.”

I see it in my legal practice all the time. Divorce alters everything about one’s life. Implementing the changes that have to be made during and after divorce is a big challenge for many women.

One of my recent clients who was divorcing her husband of 30 years explained her biggest fear to me. “I’m really afraid,” Kayla* said. “I’m totally unprepared to support myself.” She had gone to college to study psychology but left after her second year without getting a degree. As a young adult Kayla had managed her parents’ retail business until she became religious and got married. After that she was a full time homemaker and mother. “I have no idea what I’m going to do to earn a living now. Who will hire me?”

Two Prong Approach

Beverly Chimes says she meets women in this position all the time. “Many women are in their late 40’s and they’ve stayed at home to raise their kids. They have a college degree but they don’t know how to enter the workforce.”

She says that when it comes to money, women generally feel ignorant, powerless and frustrated because they don’t know much about managing finances. And her clients with kids worry about their children’s loyalty, and parenting alone without the physical support of someone to help carry the load.

When social work and coaching are combined, as in Beverly’s practice women have the benefit of two very important perspectives.

1) A deep understanding of the process one must go through to emotionally deal with divorce.

2) A goal oriented, practical planning and implementation facet to help get women on their feet.

“Therapeutic understanding and actual transformation”, says Beverly, “Is most often what a woman facing divorce needs. When she can establish what funds she’ll need, where she’ll be living and she can get her kids settled, only then will a woman have the capacity to move forward in her emotional mindset.”

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Practical Resources

So, when it comes to the 3 big divorce challenges Jewish women face there are resources available in Israel. I have put together a small list for women getting divorced or those who are newly single. I have either had a personal connection with those on the list, or they came recommended to me. In my research I’ve become aware that a far more cohesive guide is needed and G-d Willing my office is working on that for the future.

Divorce is not easy. The 3 big divorce challenges Jewish women face will definitely change you. Take advantage of the resources available to help you make it a change for the better. May you go from strength to strength.

Download these free e-books by Adv. Jay Hait

Free ebook -What women need to know about divorce in Israel
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Paying your vehicle license online.

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Renewing and paying for your vehicle license online is simple and easy to do.

The Israel Ministry of Transport has made it easier to renew and pay for your vehicle license – you can do it online.

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The Sussita – A locally manufactured car, popular in the 60’s and 70s  

Things you need to know about vehicle license renewal in Israel

  • Driver’s licenses are renewable every 10 years but your vehicle license needs to be renewed annually.
  • You need a copy of your vehicle license when you doing the roadworthy test.
  • Every vehicle has to be insured with Compulsory Insurance – ‘Hova’
  • It is illegal to drive without Compulsory Insurance
  • If your vehicle’s license has expired, you’ll need to have it towed to a testing station for the roadworthy test.

TermTransliterationHebrew
Compulsory InsuranceHovaחובה
Roadworthy testMivchan Ma’asi  (a.k.a Test) מבחן מעשי (slang: Test – טסט)

How to pay your vehicle license?

There are 4 ways to pay for your vehicle license in Israel

  1. At the post office in cash, by credit card, cheque or bank transfer
  2. By phone – dial *5678, or +972-3-9695678 from abroad
  3. At a self-service center with the vehicles license holder’s credit card.
  4. Online with a credit card or by bank transfer
  • When you pay online or by phone, your temporary license will be emailed to you and you can print it on any printer – black or colour.
  • When you pay at a self-service center or the post office, a printed temporary license is issued.

At the testing station

  • You’ll get a sticker for your vehicle from the testing station when your vehicle passes the test. You must attach the sticker to the front windscreen of your vehicle and it must be clearly visible.
  • Prior to your test, you can also print the vehicle license at the vehicle testing station.

Receiving a Parcel from Abroad.

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Your parcel is due to arrive in Israel – what now?

Linda wrote:-

“Can you help me, please?

I am an international student and have been in Israel for about 6 weeks. I ordered a parcel online and I received an order confirmation in my email, but how will I know when it arrives and what happens then? Where do I fetch it? What do I need?”

Whether you’re in Israel on a study program, or recently made Aliyah, navigating Hebrew instructions – even simple ones – can have you pulling your hair out.

Your order from AliExpress, Shein, or a local supplier is confirmed and on its way. You note the tracking number and wait.

A few weeks later, a text message appears on your phone—entirely in Hebrew. You recognize the tracking number, and for a moment, there’s relief. Your package has arrived.

Then comes the question:

  1. Where must I collect it? Can I have it delivered?
  2. Do I need an appointment?
  3. Do I need an identifying document?
  4. Do I have to pay tax?

The First Notification

After receiving an email order confirmation, a few weeks later the first delivery notification will be sent from Israel Post, or a third party delivery service like HFD, Cheetah, or UPS, and will look something like this.

What does it say? Here is the translation.

“Hello, your name, your parcel reference number xxxxxxx from AliExpress is on its way to Israel. Once it has been released from customs, it will be sent to a collection point associated with the address that you provided in your order.”

You can choose how you would like to have the parcel delivered: you can self-collect or choose to have the parcel delivered for a fee.

The message continues: “If you do not choose an alternative delivery method, your parcel will be sent as per the supplier’s instructions. Note, the delivery method can only be changed prior to the parcel’s arrival in Israel.”

Collection points could be a post office or a designated distribution point across your city.

The Second Notification

A few days later you will receive a second notification.

Translation: “Dear client, your parcel reference number xxxxxxxxx from AliExpress has arrived in Israel and is on its way to you. To track the parcel, click on the following link.”

The Third Notification

A few days after the second notification, you will receive a third one.

It says” “Hello, parcel reference number xxxxxxx has arrived in Israel and is awaiting pick-up xxxxxxx.

Note, there is a second reference number in the body of the message – in this case ג1843. This is the reference number you must present at the distribution point.

Translation continues: “Click on the following link to arrange an appointment or schedule a delivery to your address.”

The post office requires you to make an appointment ahead of time (you can do this online via their website).

Next and Final Notification

If you don’t collect your parcel in time, you’ll usually receive a reminder. Most pickup points ask that you collect it within three business days.

At the post office, parcels are typically held for up to 14 days—after that, if unclaimed, they are returned to the sender.

Eventually, you have your parcel. Once your parcel has been collected or delivered, you’ll receive a final message.

Final Notification

This notification says: “Thank you for collecting parcel reference XXXXXXXXX. To improve our service, we would appreciate your answering three questions by clicking on this link.”

MyPost is a recommend that you register for (Hebrew) so that you can manage your deliveries. Thanks – Israel Post.

Photo ID

You’ll need to present a photo ID: teudat zehut, passport, or driver’s license

Duty on Personal Imports

According to the law, duty on personal imports above a $75 value, can be levied.